Day: May 8, 2016

She had to film the day after Kody was being an ass to her. She was not happy at all. She said she was making smartass remarks about his hair and all the women laughed. She said she was tired of pretending on camera everything was fine and she was happy.

She was feeling a lot closer to me now that she realized he was not going to even miss her when she left. None of them had came to her after the therapy to ask if she was okay. They didn’t check on her or even talk to her. They just left her alone. She said that’s what Kody would do, wrangle all of them after her and him would have a fight and get them all on his side by not disclosing everything to them. She said he had done it for years and she was tired of taking all of the blame for their many problems with each other.

Then she confided in me a lot of things he had said and done to her over the years. I was shocked. I didn’t even know what to say so I just said I love you and you don’t deserve to be treated that way.

107th Voicemail 5-21-2015 3:09pm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g19KQsS5AwQ&feature=youtu.be

Hey baby, just touching base with you. I finished up here for a while. For quite a while actually. And I just thought I would call and see how you are doing. Hope you are having a good afternoon. Okay give me a call when you can. If you have time. Okay.

She was going into a family therapy session on this day. She left in the middle of it because Kody was being an ass to her. She was feeling attacked for not participating with the family things. She had completely pulled away from all of them because she was working on getting things ready to move out and move on with me. She was spending all of her free time either talking to me, texting me, or with me. We did our best to find time for each other. I was completely supporting her at this point and she was getting no support at home from anybody. She had told him to move out. He did. She said it had gotten so bad he couldn’t even be civil to her anymore.

While in therapy she was expressing how she felt and wanted to say something and he said I don’t care anymore Meri, I don’t want to hear anything you have to say. I don’t care about any of this anymore. So she got up and left. She called me crying and left a voicemail. I called her back right away and we talked for a half hour. She was really upset. She said she had left and called his phone and asked that he put it on speakerphone. She went off on everyone for not sticking by her and not offering support when he was being rude and not working anything through with her. She said I just want to be civil with all of you until I leave. She said it’s obvious this isn’t where I belong anymore and I want you all to know I’m not going to stay in this anymore. I need out.

So that was the first mention to all of the adults that she wanted to leave. She did not mention me or the affair. They all knew something was going on but they thought it was because she had been sick with the stomach issues. They all said she must be depressed.

As you can tell by the past 2 months of voicemails we were very happy. She was happy and laughing having a great time with me. We talked things out later and she said she felt better. She said this just shows her how broken things are with him and the other sister wives. That the point of therapy is to have a safe place to talk and he has proven over and over he not only won’t listen to anything she feels but he dismisses her like she doesn’t matter to any of them. She said she was sick of him and wanted me to come get her. So I did for the night 😉

104th Voicemail 5-20-2015 7:04am
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTYpVPB9We0&feature=youtu.be

Good morning. Just trying to reach out to see if I can get in touch with you again. Okay. Call me when you want to.

105th Voicemail 5-20-2015 1:33pm
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Hey. I’m done here for a bit so call me when you can, okay? Okay I love you, bye.

106th Voicemail 5-20-2015 6:43pm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbnjyeswdv4&feature=youtu.be

Baby it’s been hours and I need to talk to you I miss you. Will you please call me I just really miss you. I love you. Okay…

This was the day I was going back home to Las Vegas. I had been gone a few days at meetings around the midwest. I was so busy I was trying to keep in contact with her the best that I could.

97th Voicemail 5-17-2015 8:06pm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XE_DCmJom_w&feature=youtu.be

Hi. Just checking in. Don’t know where you went or what happened. Anyway, okay. I will talk to you whenever you can.

We talked off and on while she drove up to Utah. I had a meeting out of town and wasn’t going to be around for a few days. We ended up talking until really late into the morning. She said there were a lot of memories in that house and she didn’t want to live in Utah ever again. She said it wasn’t who she was anymore. She said she would have loved attending UVU her favorite college but she knew it wouldn’t happen.

We were back to being sweet, in love, and communicating very well.

94th Voicemail 5-14-2015 12:04am
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Hey. Hope everything is okay. Just wanting to touch base and say hi and see if you got there okay. Anyway, just wanted to make sure everything was cool. Okay. Give me a call when you want, okay. I love you, bye.

95th Voicemail 5-14-2015 9:24am
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Hi. I’m on the road so give me a call whenever you want. I’ll be driving for about 5 and a half hours. Okay. I’ll talk to you later when you call. Love you.

96th Voicemail 5-14-2015 12:09pm
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Hi just checking in with you. Your meeting must have gone late. So anyway just give me a call when you can, okay. Love you, bye.