41st Voicemail, 42nd Voicemail, 43rd Voicemail, 44th Voicemail, 45th Voicemail – April 18th, 2015

IMG_0658This is what happened that night. We were in such a good place. Things were great. The only struggles we ever had is when I got busy or she got busy and we weren’t able to talk a few times a day. That would cause both of us to get a little insecure. At this point in the affair I was working a lot of late hours. I was really busy and trying to figure out when I could make time to see her. This was the night we had sex in her bed at her house. I took this photo of her laying in her bed before things started. We made love for over an hour and we were both a mess. Her hair was really messed up. It was all over the place. While we were talking I misunderstood something she said. She got up to get fixed up. I left. I was pissed. I went home.  She called, I answered and went off on her and hung up. For the next few hours I didn’t answer or text her back. She was blowing up my phone. By the next morning I was cooled off but still wanted to know what she meant by what she said.

This not only confirms that we have seen each other in person but also that we were having sex.

In her bed sometimes. Most of the sex was at my house or in hotels. I had a house 5 minutes away from her house in Las Vegas at the time. More than enough proof of our sexual relationship is in my R-Rated section of this blog. I will explain later how we managed to pull this off sneaking me in and out of her house late at night with all of them living right there. We had a system down that worked great for months. Later on in the day we did talk and she explained what she meant and what she said. I explained how I took it and how it made me feel and then we were fine. This was usually what would happen when both of us were so busy we didn’t have time to talk. We would miss each other and turn it into a crazy, ridiculous argument. They never lasted more than a few hours Lol It was really dumb.

41st Voicemail 4-18-2015 4:29am


Babe, come on what is going on tonight? Why are you struggling? My gosh I was not saying that being intimate with you is my worst, it’s my hair, it’s my mop. Oh my gosh honey don’t. Please, honey you’re really having a hard time with something tonight and I wish that you would talk to me. Honey I’m here for you, I’m here, I haven’t gone anywhere I keep trying. Honey, please? I just love you I don’t know what’s going on.

42nd Voicemail 4-18-2015 4:38am

Baby I’m really sad. I feel like you are pushing me away. You really misunderstood what I was saying. I said laying here with you is very vulnerable especially with my hair looking  a mess. That’s all I was saying, all I was saying. Please don’t try to read anything else into it. Being with you is very special to me. It really is.

43rd Voicemail 4-18-2015 4:45am

Well I’ll just try one more time, I just want to say I’m sorry for what I said to upset you and I really, really am sorry. I love you I know you need your space. Just come back to me okay? I love you very much. I hope you sleep well. I’ll talk to you tomorrow, okay? I love you baby. Please try not to be mad at me. Because I wasn’t saying anything about us at all I swear I wasn’t. You made me sad. Very. It’s completely non-intentional. Okay? I hope you sleep well tonight baby.

44th Voicemail 4-18-2015 10:28am

Hey baby. I just want to try to talk to you today and just. Just feeling like there is something wrong and I don’t know what it is. I don’t understand I feel like you are pushing me away and it makes me sad and I don’ t know if I did something. You are saying that nothing is going on. And I’m just trying to figure it out I just want to make things right. I really do  because I love you and you know that. And I hope you are okay with that. And I know you love me. I’m just trying to make this better, that’s all. Please call and talk to me later. Thank you for…

45th Voicemail 4-18-2015 4:30pm

Hey babe, can you call me when you have a second? Just want to chat with you. Missing you, I love you. Bye.


About Samuel

Single dad of 4 beautiful kids, Heston & Alex my twin boys, and my daughters Peace and Sky. Dad of 2 angel babies in Heaven, Ryan and Talon. Divorced. Semi-retired app developer, business partner, Commercial Real estate investor, Chicago Bears & Chicago Cubs fan, vegan, lifelong Catholic, voting independent party member, guitar playing singer who owns a dog, and 2 cats. We live in beautiful Denver, Colorado. I started my first blog Janaury 1st, 2012. Official owner of NotBatmanYet.com and @NotBatmanYet Twitter account.
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  1. Meri has a very distinctive voice. I sincerely believe the voicemails are her. I have no doubt that you two had an emotional affair. It’s pretty obvious in the voicemail that she loves you. If you still love her, why not try to work it out? In some of those notes, she says that you’re her soulmate. I don’t understand why you say you all will never be together again. If you both love each other why not try to work it out? I really believe Meri got the legal divorce because she wants to be done with, and free of Kody. You can tell that she is not happy in all the episodes. Who would be, when you have a husband that’s married to you and has three mistresses, and suddenly, you became a mistress, and lost your standing as legal wife with no legal rights. It might be different if they all lived in one house and functioned as 1big plural family, but they don’t.

    He runs from house to house like a mad man. Kody’s tagline “Love should be multiplied, not divided,” is stupid. He’s divided his love between 4 ladies. Multiplying love, to me, is having the kids. When Robyn can no longer pop out kids, he’ll probably find a younger, fertile model.

    I have seen a lot of people questioning your identity. I even saw where 1 lady, Stacy Austin, says you sent her photos of yourself, and she was skeptical so she starting serching, and found that the pics you sent were really Juan Pablo Galavis. He was at one point ” The Bachelor” on ABC. I don’t know if it’s true or not, but if it is, that’s pretty tacky to pull on someone.

    Have you considered posting a pic of your birth certificate? A certified copy would be great. I would think that would be enough to satisfy skeptics and non-believers of your identity. Wouldn’t like to have all the drama and, speculation that you’re a woman with multiple personally disorder, over and done with? But if that was to happen, you would lose your Twitter and Facebook Fame!

    • Stacey is a former friend that is pissed off I did not want to be with her. I didn’t send her any photos of The Bachelor Lol See how stories get crazy? She also claims Lindsay took off with $20,000 of her money? How can that not be reported to the police if it were true? Because it’s another lie. They both won huge amounts gambling and went back and forth to Vegas on that money. There is a time to address things and it’s not until later.
      We will never get back together. She is an amazing woman and she will leave someday. Like all issues in relationships, things will get better for her for a few months then go right back to being bad. That is his pattern with her. She told me about it a lot.

  2. Hi Sam, thanks for unblocking me, can you explain the context to this photo and the voicemails?

  3. hey sam, what is the context behind these messages? why were you upset with meri, its sounds like she mentioned something and you misinterpreted it?

  4. embarrassed voyeur

    Who calls people at 4 ish A.M? What was she so upset about..do you remember. Sounds like she said something about her hair.

  5. Samuel, I am wondering why you haven’t posted any pics yet? When will they be posted? In your timeline, you have already met Meri. At that time, I’m sure you guys took pics…right? Every couple does that. I’m just wondering why you haven’t posted those yet??

  6. 41st and 42nd she mentioned laying with you.and being intimate with you. Surely that blows the catfish story out the water ☺

  7. There’s no proof still. No sign that she met up with Sam (a man) just pictures of her and Sam’s assistant (a woman)..

    Why won’t you just post pictures? Much easier.

  8. When did you and Meri break up? Will that be on texts or voicemails?

  9. Want more of the texts! The voicemails are getting repetitive. please post more texts asap!!

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