Change in plans, as usual

Brandi has already decided to move to Paris with us and be our nanny. Sarah is starting to come around. I’ve offered her a wad of cash so big she said that’s too tempting Lol I’m a **** I know it but I really want Sarah to come. If she decides to stay that’s okay too. I just want my boys to be happy. Brandi is great with both of them and she’s already got Peace in a routine. Since she told us she wants to come we have made Brandi the personal nanny to Peace. She hangs out with the boys but Sarah and Heather have been their nannies. We thought it would be better this way. Sarah didn’t like the change at first but now that her schedule has lightened up she’s much happier. I swear sometimes I think Sarah acts just like Zoila Lol If you don’t understand that reference you need to Google it right now.

My wife spent most of yesterday shopping and packing. We are going to leave Friday at noon to go to Paris. We are taking Brandi and both pets. Sarah has said she wants to go when we actually move my wife next weekend and that’s probably not a bad idea. That might sell her on this! I pray every night for Sarah to change her mind. I ask God to show her the path to the decision but I know that’s selfish and wrong. I can’t help it. My wife doesn’t even get mad because she sees how much my kids rely on Sarah. I’m probably going to cry more than she does when we leave each other Lol I don’t know what I will do without our Sarah.

Work is going great. In October I was able to visit all of my companies and tell them all goodbye. I handed out bonuses for Xmas early. I wanted to personally do that so it’s done and no one expected that so soon. I wanted to thank each employee and let them know that next summer we will all be together again in Hawaii. I think making that a yearly trip will be good for everyone. Months after they all still talk about how much fun it was. I’m so happy to hear that because that’s exactly why I decided to do it. They all deserve a break even for a few days.

I’m not going to say the exact date but Happy 1 year anniversary to my wife and I for our marriage! Who would have thought we would make it a full year without her killing me Lol She said it’s been an adventure every day and she never has felt so loved in all of her life. She feels beautiful even being pregnant and feeling fat but I make it seem like she’s a Queen, which she is. She never dreamed her life would have so many kids this fast but she knew coming into our marriage that I wanted a big family. She said she can’t wait to spend the rest of her life with me and our kids and make more babies.

I love my wife with all of my heart. We will have a very special day celebrating the actual day. We will be in Paris on the date and I have all kinds of gifts for her. Things sentimental but not all material. She’s going to be so surprised. I feel the happiest I have ever been and it’s all because of my wife and kids. She really takes care of me and makes me feel like I can do anything. She supports all of my crazy ideas and doesn’t let me get away with anything. I love that she cares so much and I see all of her friends always gushing about her. She really is an amazing woman. Smart, beautiful, blonde, and all mine!

I love you Abby. I can’t wait to see what the next 60 + years has for our life. God brought you to me and when you asked me out after I broke things off and we had a break. I never thought we would end up married. You are the best thing in my life right next to my kids. I can’t wait to see what our Talon looks like. My good looks and your brains, look out world! I want more kids with you, I want more time with you, I want every special event in my life to have you right next to me. Thank you for loving all of us. I told you in my vows that God sends your soul mate at the right time and right place. We found each other and you said Yes. That’s all it took for us to become a family. I love you. Wait until you see what I have planned for our 1st wedding anniversary!

Happy Anniversary to us!


About Samuel

Single dad of 4 beautiful kids, Heston & Alex my twin boys, and my daughters Peace and Sky. Dad of 2 angel babies in Heaven, Ryan and Talon. Divorced. Semi-retired app developer, business partner, Commercial Real estate investor, Chicago Bears & Chicago Cubs fan, vegan, lifelong Catholic, voting independent party member, guitar playing singer who owns a dog, and 2 cats. We live in beautiful Denver, Colorado. I started my first blog Janaury 1st, 2012. Official owner of and @NotBatmanYet Twitter account.
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