So this is Christmas?

I am very excited to share that our 1st Christmas with Trey went very well. My family, friends, and neighbors are all very generous people and they made sure his 1st Christmas in our family was special. My kids really enjoyed all of their gifts and even helped me clean up with the mess without me having to yell at them. I am pretty sure the girls enjoyed their Christmas with their families. I am so happy we were able to get them back home to Texas for a much needed visit. With Covid destroying everyone’s holidays, it was worth it to at least try.

We have zero travel plans. We might go out to drive around and look at Christmas lights again, but I haven’t decided on that yet. I’m supposed to be skiing. The plan was to take the kids to Aspen for a week and enjoy a fun ski trip OR to go somewhere else, warm, and away. Thank you Rona, you ended our year with a sad trombone.

That being said, I am so happy we have managed to keep everyone under my roof healthy. This has been a real test of kindness. Being stuck 24/7 with everyone here, never leaving, too scared to even let my kids go to a local park to play on the swings. It’s been nothing. I keep promising them when this is over, I will make it all up to them. They don’t know what that looks like. Either do I. I pray this does not stretch into all of 2021. I’m not sure some of his will make it out alive (Heston). All of the complaining, fighting, but also the laughs, the funny moments, the kids growth milestones. I just shake my head at all of it. My goodness, we are getting by.

That reminds me of that song. Give me one last look, as you walk away. I don’t know what to say. I start calling out your nameeee! 2020, I will not miss you at all. You have been a giant pain in my rear. That song, Until then I’ll get by. Somehow I’ll get by. I’ll get by. I’m thinking that song name is I’ll Get By Lol But I don’t know who sang it.

Here’s to getting by until 2021, guys! Merry Christmas to you all! Love you.

Rowboat Book Club #96

A Promised Land

by Barack Obama 

A riveting, deeply personal account of history in the making—from the president who inspired us to believe in the power of democracy.

In the stirring, highly anticipated first volume of his presidential memoirs, Barack Obama tells the story of his improbable odyssey from young man searching for his identity to leader of the free world, describing in strikingly personal detail both his political education and the landmark moments of the first term of his historic presidency—a time of dramatic transformation and turmoil.

Obama takes readers on a compelling journey from his earliest political aspirations to the pivotal Iowa caucus victory that demonstrated the power of grassroots activism to the watershed night of November 4, 2008, when he was elected 44th president of the United States, becoming the first African American to hold the nation’s highest office.

Reflecting on the presidency, he offers a unique and thoughtful exploration of both the awesome reach and the limits of presidential power, as well as singular insights into the dynamics of U.S. partisan politics and international diplomacy. Obama brings readers inside the Oval Office and the White House Situation Room, and to Moscow, Cairo, Beijing, and points beyond. We are privy to his thoughts as he assembles his cabinet, wrestles with a global financial crisis, takes the measure of Vladimir Putin, overcomes seemingly insurmountable odds to secure passage of the Affordable Care Act, clashes with generals about U.S. strategy in Afghanistan, tackles Wall Street reform, responds to the devastating Deepwater Horizon blowout, and authorizes Operation Neptune’s Spear, which leads to the death of Osama bin Laden.

A Promised Land is extraordinarily intimate and introspective—the story of one man’s bet with history, the faith of a community organizer tested on the world stage. Obama is candid about the balancing act of running for office as a Black American, bearing the expectations of a generation buoyed by messages of “hope and change,” and meeting the moral challenges of high-stakes decision-making. He is frank about the forces that opposed him at home and abroad, open about how living in the White House affected his wife and daughters, and unafraid to reveal self-doubt and disappointment. Yet he never wavers from his belief that inside the great, ongoing American experiment, progress is always possible.

This beautifully written and powerful book captures Barack Obama’s conviction that democracy is not a gift from on high but something founded on empathy and common understanding and built together, day by day. 

I told God my Xmas plans and he said HAHAHA Sam

Hi guys. I’m supposed to be on a sunny beach right now enjoying the sun, surf, and quiet life. Nope. I’m at home in Denver, it’s currently, let me look, 30 degrees. Three Oh. As in Oh Sh** it’s cold! The house is ready for Christmas, the food is being planned and menu edited. My Aunt and cousin are here. They got in really late last night or very early this morning. My Aunt has already made breakfast and asked why I didn’t go get a fresh haircut, I knew she was coming. Southern women know how to give it to you with no qualms at all. None. My nannies are packing up the rest of their things and cleaning out their fridge. Their house (My pool house) is my guesthouse and that’s where my guests are staying. Except Lindsay.

Lindsay has taken over the east part of the house. She’s even throwing East SIDDDEEEE gang signs at me when I’m getting frustrated with her. She is her usual self, crazy, smart mouth, and oh she is throwing in sassy just for some extra spice. I love her, she is my best friend and I don’t even know how to argue with her anymore. I think I’ve lost my edge, guys. I’m getting old.

She is here so we can spend quality time together and so we can make heavy decisions about work. Covid has impacted a lot of people, I am grateful that we have not completely lost every thing. We are holding on. I have a few other things in the works but for now we have no choice. Decisions must be made. It’s not fun. I feel awful but why hold on to a sinking ship when it may begin to take us down? That’s now what we signed up for. None of this is. The problem is at the end of every decision are employees with families who need income. I guess I was hopeful that the government would step up and prolong some of their resources but they have decided on nothing. I think that’s frustrating for everyone. We will survive, we will be okay, some of my businesses may be gone.

I pray every day that you guys are okay. I have finally gotten back to all of your messages and emails. Thank you all for keeping my family in your prayers and thoughts. That is very sweet of you. Things are going to be okay. Hold on a little longer. I love you all. I want to wish you all Happy Holidays, Merry Christmas, etc. 2021 is going to be a big, beautiful year full of love and hope. Don’t give up. I promise things will turn around for all of us. God bless you guys and all of your families. Thank you so much for continuing to visit my blog and contact me. I have the best fans and friends. Take care guys! Love all your faces!

A December to Remember

Things at home have been very busy. I’ve spent the last few weeks getting my house set up from our extended stay in Hawaii. It was time to come home. I have a big day coming up next Monday and it will be easier because we are back in Denver.

We are still doing online school for the boys. Peace gets her ABC Mouse program an hour a day. She’s whipping right through all of the Pre-K and Kindergarten things. It’s kind of scary how smart she is. I mean, she already runs the house, as a 3 year old.

I’ve been neck deep in laundry, unpacking our boxes that came UPS, cooking, cleaning every surface. Oh yeah, and getting the house inside and out decorated for Christmas.

Work has been a chore. I’m still semi-retired. I’m losing money this year but we will survive. I’ve had to cut back on a lot of business things I had scheduled for this year. I have NOT traveled for work. That is crazy to me. I travel all year long in a non-Covid year. But we are okay.

The vaccine is coming. I realize it’s going to be months before my family will be allowed to get vaccinated but that’s okay. The kids do not leave the house unless we have a medical appointment or we go out for a drive. We are limiting any fast food, pizza to place we know follow all CDC guidelines. I mean, I’m not giving up Friday pizza night. It’s our family tradition. We are doing our best to stay healthy. No colds or flu bugs so far.

The good news. Wait, the GREAT NEWS, is that my 2 nannies, Lynn and her daughter Brenda, have found a house to buy. They had sold their house in Texas and decided Denver will be their forever home. They live in my guesthouse right now but have been looking for a while to find the right place for them. They found a ranch style 4 bed/3 bath home that just got revonated. There is still some painting to do but the rest of the house is brand new. It’s 10 minutes away from us so travel back and forth here will be easy. Sarah is also looking for a place. Switching from nanny to our full time teacher/helper is not making her in a rush to get out Lol I’ve tried.

The plan is to get everyone out in to their own places soon. Then it’s me and my 5 kids all alone. This was the plan for this summer but COVID said HAHAHA nope! I am looking forward to having my house and my kitchen all to myself. Sarah’s baby is so cute…and loud, and a baby, so she’s eating, sleeping, pooping all the time. I’m done with that phase. Sky is 1 and almost out of full time diapers. She’s doing her best to learn about the potty and I swear as soon as she started walking I knew we were all in trouble. This kid gets the zoomies and she’s GONE Lol I love them all. I want them all to myself. I just need help during school hours. I hope. We will see.

Hope you guys are doing well. Please wear your mask. Please enjoy or NOT enjoy the last few months of Trump. He’s been a pain in the a** for years. I’m glad he’s gone. The sooner we hit President Biden era, the better. Love you guys! Thanks for reading this.