Soul to Soul Questions

Asked, Answered

How do you know?

I know enough to say that I don’t know about a lot of things in my life.

What is your philosophy based on?

My philosophy is based on the Catholic religion.

What is the source of your information?

The New American Standard Bible

Do your ideas come from Buddhist, Christian, or Sufi traditions?

Christian based

What is Evil?

Evil is lack of love

What is the distinction between recognizing something evil and judging it?

Recognizing evil is knowing that it has or shows no love at all. Judging evil is placing emotions or feelings onto what you view as evil.

What exactly is reincarnation?

Reincarnation is your soul leaving this life and being reborn into a new form of energy

Can your prove that life exists after death?

Yes. Look at a baby and see if you recognize their eyes

What physical proof do you have of life after death?

Flowers always come back every year

What do you mean by universe?

Universe is all that encompasses our world

Do you use the word Universe to mean God?

No. God is separate from the Universe

Does the Universe care about us?

Yes it does

If the Earth school ceases to exist due to a natural disaster of some kind, would the rest of this vast Universe even care, or be aware of it?

Yes it would. It would notice our absence

Do we have a destiny?

Yes, our destiny is set before we are born

If the Universe determines my destiny, what role do I play in shaping my fate?

Your role is to sit back and enjoy the ride your destiny is going to take you on

Why are thoughts powerful?

Thoughts are powerful because they create

How do thoughts create?

Thoughts create because they tell the mind how to put our body into action to make something happen. They are powerful because they

What is new about multisensory perception?

It is a new way to say spirit

Multisensory perception apparently does not exclude the products of thought and influence — so what makes it so new?

It is a new way to learn about the things that our 5 senses can not help us understand or learn.

What is the basis for the Earth School concept?

The basis is realizing that you are on this Earth and you are meant to learn what your life is all about while you are here. Everyday is a new learning experience.

What do you mean by spiritual?

Spiritual means beyond your body

What do you mean by inner work?

Inner work are the things you need to work on that come up as a conflict with your soul. When you are hesitating, when you are fearful, when you are feeling out of balance with your life, you have inner work to do.

You often say that a person has to do the work to change and to create a more compassionate self and world. Could you better define what you mean by work?

Work is anything that makes you off balance with yourself.

What are the first steps of spiritual growth?

The first steps of spiritual growth is realizing that you are not your body. You are a soul inside of your body.

What are the first steps I should take to begin to explore my spirituality?

To being to explore your spirituality, start questioning your belief system and see if you can really stand behind it.

What is the role of sacred practices in spiritual development?

The role of sacred practices is to help you find a routine that suits your beliefs and works within the balance of your soul.

What does the scientific method have to do with spirituality?

The scientific method is the evolutional explanation for how life was created and how your spirit fits within the realm of your life.

If we replace the scientific method with other ways of knowing, how will we replace the certainty that science provides?

Science is a technique to prove or disprove theories, without the scientific method you are relying on your faith to know something as true or untrue.

Why strive for spiritual growth if the world is coming to an end?

Your world is coming to an end quicker everyday. You are meant to live a peaceful existence while you are here on Earth, to do that, you must examine your spiritual growth everyday.

What’s the point of trying to grow spiritually if our destiny has already been written?

If you stop learning, you stop living a life full of enlightenment.

Do you believe in soul mates?

Yes I do. I have found the mate to my soul.

How can I let go of my expectations of others?

Let it go and let other people in your life, be who they are. Accept them for who they are. Do not expect anything in life and enjoy what comes your way.

Why is letting go of my expectations so difficult?

Because we want what we want. And we want it right now.

Why can’t I fall in love?

Falling in love is hard to do. You have to cultivate the feelings over a period of time, it means pulling down walls and boundaries. Opening up to someone and showing them who you are.

I feel complete but can never seem to fall for anyone. Why is this?

Because you are not focusing on love. You are focusing on finding someone to love.

How can I love without fear?

Open your heart, shut your eyes, and just love everything and everyone.

What is the difference between judging and discerning?

Judging is putting an emotional attachment onto something you see, think, or feel. Discerning is establishing what something is and viewing it just as it is.

Is discerning something in another person and judging another person the same thing?

No its not. To discern something in another person is to factualized what it is. To judge them is to see what it is and put your opinion behind it.

How can I protect myself without becoming judgmental?

Stay away from things that bring you harm, open yourself to everything else in your life.

How can I tell a friend about a flaw?

Be open and honest and speak to them in relation to you.

How do I tell a friend he is too judgmental without hurting him?

Telling someone something like that will hurt them no matter how you say it. Use compassion. Say it gently.

Do people who irritate me reflect a part of me?

Yes they do. It’s a mirror image of what you see yourself doing that annoys you

Will you speak about people mirroring each other? If what another person does irritates me, is that a reflection of myself?

Mirroring is viewing something in someone else that you recognize in yourself. Yes it is.

How can I avoid being drawn into the chaos of others?

Simply do not engage in their energy.

How can I remain authentic when others in my life try to draw me into their chaos?

Stand in your peace and do not let negative or dark energy enter

Why do children and parents have conflicts?

Because parents feel responsible for children their entire lives, no matter how old the kids get.

What steps can I take to resolve conflicts with parents?

Listen to what they are saying. Really listen

How can I teach my children to be non-judgmental?

Be the example of being non-judgmental

How do I move my children toward authentic power?

By example. Live an authentic life and let them see how it affects you. They will follow that path if they choose to

How do I set an example for others?

Do your best always, be kind, show love. And let others witness your actions

Is it possible to set an example for someone else without expecting a particular reaction or response?

Yes. Be an example everyday for everyone. People are watching you all of the time.

What is a healthy diet?

A healthy diet consists on eating vegan food Haha ONLY Vegan food!

What constitutes for you a cleansing, healing diet? How can it help?

Vegan food. It changed my life. I have more energy, I fill up on healthy snacks

What is the role of fitness and physical health?

Exercise and eat a balanced diet. That is how you stay healthy

How connected or disconnected is this to our spiritual health?

It is directly connected

What is the relation of diet and spirituality?

The healthier the diet the healthier your spirit

Are antidepressants useful?

They can be on a temporary basis

What is the meaning of dreams?

Dreams are nightly letters that give you information about your life

What do dreams have to do with life? Are they a tool for discovery, and how can they be used?

Dreams can guide you into understanding things going on currently in your life. Yes they are. They can be used to interpret how you really feel about things.

What is the role of my soul in my life?

Your soul is who you are. It is there before your physical body was born, it will be there after you die

Why are souls created imperfect?

They aren’t. Every soul is created perfectly by God

If souls have parts of themselves that need healing, doesnt it mean that they are wounded, or not whole?

It means those are lessons that the soul has not learned yet and will have to learn sometime

Is it possible to experience my soul?

Yes it is.

How can I feel my soul?

Anytime you feel an emotion, that is your soul making you notice

Why do souls leave when they still have work to do?

Souls leave when they are supposed to leave. No matter how hard it is for us to understand, every death is on time

What is the difference between a personality and a soul?

A personality is the label you put on yourself. A soul is who you are

How do I keep from feeling at constant odds with my personality?

Accept you for who you really are. Do not label yourself anything because labels expire

Can souls communicate with us after their personalities die?

Yes. Souls are around us all of the time. When a loved one dies, their soul stays near us.

Do we need to grow into great souls?

No. We already are a great soul

Do we need to grow into great souls before we have the chance of leaving the Earth School?

No. We leave the Earth School when we are meant to

What is intuition?

Intuition is a nonphysical force that tells you by an inner voice or inner reaction how you feel about a situation

How do I find my intuition or inner voice?

Listen for it when you are presented with a situation in your life

How does intuition differ from paranoia?

Intuition is a subtle energy shift that guides you. Paranoia is an unstable energy that makes you afraid of situations that are non-existent

What is the difference between habit and addiction?

A habit is a repetitive action that does not harm you. An addiction is a repetitive action that harms you

How can I overcome my addiction?

You have to heal the painful history that is causing you to numb it out

If I have an addiction, how do I take away its power?

Focus on healing the part of you that is in pain

How do I change a behavior I want to change when the decision to act that way feels involuntary?

It may feel involuntary but it is not. A behavior can be altered to change the pattern of its activity.

How long will it take to find all of the unhealed parts of myself?

It will take as long as your soul keeps finding a reason to reincarnate

What is my responsibility to friends and family members who are addicted or in emotional pain?

Your responsibility is not to enable their destructive behavior, but to always love them.

Why do I get such bad karma?

Karma is not real. You can not get good or bad karma for actions in your life.

How do I challenge my anger or fear?

You challenge your anger and fear by setting a better example of love and compassion for yourself

Why does my anger increase when I challenge it?

Challenging something is changing things and thats what causes the anger

What is the difference between challenging my fears and repressing them?

Challenging your fears you are bringing them up to deal with. Repressing your fears you are not dealing with them. If you do not deal with your fears they will linger around for as long as you repress them.

How can I really change?

You work on living a loving and compassionate life and not holding onto things that cause fear or anger

How can I change my unconscious intentions?

Shift your energy to focus on positive things that show love

Why is the unexpected so painful?

Because its a change in your life that you did not see coming and we do not like change

Why do nonphysical teachers allow violence?

Violence is going to occur because thats what is happening when there is no love.

Why is my life so difficult?

It is difficult because you are stuck living it in a way you do not like. Your soul is making things hard so you learn the lesson and can move into a place of love

Why do some people find their path in life easier than others who seem to struggle and get nowhere?

They have let things go and are not wanting to stay in the life that is holding onto bad feelings.

Why do bad things happen to good people?

Bad things happen from time to time to everybody. Labeling it happening as a bad thing to a good person is not true.

How can I heal bad memories?

Talk about them

How can I handle my negativity?

Try very hard to stay positive, even when you do not want to

When I find I am upset, what can I do to stop the negativity in me?

Calm down and relax. Quiet yourself. Then figure out why you are upset.

How can I heal my competitive nature?

Do not compete. That’s very hard to say because I am so competitive

How can I get over making comparisons of myself, my house, or my children to others, and judging that I am better or worse?

You have what you have. There is no need to compare it to anyone else. Appreciate what you do have

How can I let go of the pain of ending a relationship?

That one I’m still trying to figure out. The pain from my last relationship is crushing me. I’m trying to deal with it but I’m completely paralyzed. I’m trying but its very very hard.

How does a person learn to let go of the pain, accept and move on, without your partner, when he or she no longer wants to continue the relationship?

Just let it go and accept it. You don’t have a choice. Be graceful and loving as you exit.

How can I forgive myself if I don’t feel worthy of forgiveness?

You have to forgive yourself. You have to.

How can I learn to trust?

I don’t trust very easily at all so this one is hard for me to answer. I am learning to give people a shot now. Before I would not. Now I am opening myself up to them and sharing what is going on in my daily life. That seems to be building a bond with them and we are trusting each other in being so vulnerable.

How can I become the person I want to be?

Figure out what you want to become and become that.

How do I change my ways and behavior to what I want them to be?

That is hard for me. I have been angry for so long. I am learning to let the negative feelings go and trying to understand why I get angry over such small things. I know it is a control issue, a trust issue, and an insecurity. But it’s hard to admit that I have behaved very very badly. The truth is, I have. And I am working very hard now, not to.

How does a person know what he was put on earth to do?

You will feel a calling to do something.

What is a person’s calling?

Whatever it is that aligns your souls and your happiness. That’s what you should do forever. Whatever it is

How do I find my purpose?

Your purpose is to live a peaceful life. That’s it

I feel so unfulfilled and lonely inside. How do I find my purpose?

Seek peace. Go be with people. They will fulfill you and make you not lonely

What is the single best thing I can do for myself?

Do not turn into a recluse like me. It does damage to yourself and to anyone else. Learn to live life and be happy.

What is the single best thing I can do to grow spiritually?

Read and learn

How can everyone in a community be equal?

If they put away all of their competitiveness, it can happen

How can I tell the difference between wants and needs?

A want is something you know you do not have to have. A need is something you have to have.

How do I know when I am running away or moving to my next lesson in life?

If you are running away you are turning off emotion to it, if you are moving on, you have dealt with the feelings and can let them go and move forward. A lot of people run away from feelings and never acknowledge them at all. They choose to stick their heads up their backsides and pretend they are happy. It pisses me off to see people do that when life is so precious.

Can awareness overcome temptation?

Yes. You can not be tempted by things that are not meant to be yours.

Is awareness the key that allows temptation to lose power?

Yes. Becoming aware of what urges you towards the temptation can help you shut your emotional attachment off to it.

Do intention and motivation mean the same?


What is the difference between a healthy boundary and emotional withdrawal?

A healthy boundary is setting up the line that is acceptable to you. Emotional withdrawal is choosing not to feel anymore towards somebody or something.

Does doubt have a purpose?

Doubt will teach you how to decide.

What is the purpose of doubt in our lives?

It is meant to show us what one decision can do over another decision. But we then must quit doubting and pick.

How can I feel authentically empowered every day?

Wake up grateful for life, be happy, find love, and enjoy your day.

How can I remember my spirit?

You will feel it in your heart when your spirit moves through you. Mostly during joyful moments but your spirit will also come through when you are sad.

How do I remember my spirit in the midst of a very negative situation?

Feel it wash over you and calm you down.

Do my surroundings prevent me from creating authentic power?

Yes they can. If you are not feeling authentic, remove yourself from that situation. I had to and it was very very hard to do. But it was for the best.

Do I need to isolate myself until I am strong enough to continue in the real world?

No you shouldn’t do that. I have done that and its not working for me anymore. I was trying to heal my heart from my pain. What makes you strong is being scared and still living the life you want. That’s strengthen.

Can I remain a christian and create authentic power?

Yes you can.

Testing is fun

I love taking tests. It’s a way to evaluate how much I have learned and where I need to improve. I am proficient in tests. Even on pop quizzes I always managed to do well. A friend of mine sent me to this site to try out the free assessments. It was kind of fun to see what my scores were. None of them surprised me.

ListeningPage1I am a great listener. Always have been. I listen more than I talk.












Page1LearningI love to learn. I read often. I love books. I would rather read books than watch TV and I do so often.







Page2LearningI am a visual learner. Which I already knew. But it was interesting to find out I am a not a tactile learner.






















































Happy Father’s Day

fathers-dayEvery year on Father’s day I think about my dad who has passed away and my son who also passed away.

To my dad, he wasn’t the greatest guy or dad. But he worked very hard and he taught me all that I know about construction. He taught me to work very hard and do your best for the customer. He taught me to have manners and be respectful of my elders. And to stick by your family, even when it’s impossible and hard to deal with.

To my son, he died before he was born to me. 7 months was never enough. Not getting to hold him or see him was the worst part. But knowing he existed has carried me 12 years without him. I loved him the moment I knew he was alive. And I talked to him and sang to him a lot. I prayed with him and for him. I dreamed about him, I wanted him, I love him. He is my son. And I miss him everyday. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t think about him and what he could be now. It took me 10 years to move on with my life and 2 more years to really start dating again. It’s because of him I’m finding my happiness again. I want to live the best life I can while God allows me to stay.

I hope everyone has a great Father’s day. You know it’s not about getting dad a present or cooking out on the grill for him. It’s telling him today how much you appreciate him. All that he is, all he has taught you, all he has done in his life. That’s what all dads really want to hear on Father’s Day.

I will be going to Paris for the next week on business. I blackout all social media while I’m gone. I will talk to you all soon. God loves you and I love ya’ll too!


Latest-Updates  Life as I know it changed a few months ago. I had business opportunities in Las Vegas, Nevada a few times in my career but nothing had ever panned out. I went to Las Vegas to have surgery and ended up having to have a second surgery earlier this year. While I was there for recovery I made some new business contacts and began to start figuring out how to actually do commercial investment in this fast paced city. What I found out is, you really do have to know someone that knows someone.

Through the grace of God I found a really good business mentor that began to show me the ropes and start to introduce me around. I began looking at buildings or business investments into casinos and finally found out how things go. You can join in the casino investment groups for a price, but your percentage of return is very minimal. Less than .5% yield. That’s not worth my time. My 2 investment companies have worked too hard to have such a bad back swing on investments. So I kept looking.

We decided to make a bid on a casino in Reno, Nevada. For 2 months I went back and forth trying to make the deal happen. And finally we got it! I called my girlfriend right away and she was so excited for me. It’s a casino/hotel/spa and we are going to gut each section one by one to make it into a luxury hotel. This will be my biggest project yet. I can’t wait to see how things turn out. I really hope things go smoothly but God has taught me many times that life happens after you make your plans. I pray to make it through with grace and a sense of humor at least.

The other casino project I managed to get myself into is on the Strip. It is almost completed with the exterior. I own only 5% of that project after 3 weeks of daily negotiations but once it is up and going, it will be very lucrative. 5% of daily intake will add up quickly and I will be able to justify to my Board of Directors the investment I had to explain over and over. In owning less than 5% in a casino I didn’t have to get a gaming license, but I got one anyway because I plan to turn my profits into additional percentages over the long term agreement. It’s all so confusing and it honestly gives me a headache trying to keep track of things. In total we have over 20 projects currently going strong and it keeps me on the phone, in meetings, and traveling around the country a lot.

I adopted a beautiful cat which I named Penelope. She is a sweetheart and very cuddly. Unless she’s ripping up paper, newspaper, curtains, or anything that she finds fun to tear up. I love her and she is a great addition into my life. There is also another addition but I will get into that later. That’s a story on its own which I will be posting about soon.

I am enjoying the weather here in Vegas. It has gotten really hot over the past few days and will be boiling hot all next week. I will be going to Paris, France for a week. I have meetings there until 3pm each day and then we will go sightseeing and enjoy the local cuisine, art, and anything else we want to experience. I have looked forward to this trip for months. I am excited to share all that I know and be able to speak French fluently again and work on keeping my dialect on point. I love Paris. I have lived there for a year when I was in my 20s and enjoyed everything about it. I have rented out an apartment overlooking downtown for privacy with a separate elevator and back entrance so we may come and go as we please without having to deal with anyone else that lives in the building. It has been fully stocked for my arrival and will have all of my favorite foods stocked the day before we arrive.  I usually get into town and crash. Taking a nap after an 8 hour flight in from New York is just what you need to begin the jetlag cure. And the time different doesn’t help either.

My broken foot finally healed. I ended up breaking it in 3 places across the bottom. Let me tell you that is a pain that is a reminder on every step. I had a cast, then a boot, then a brace. All of which are off. I find myself favoring it a little bit when I walk instead of trusting that it is healed. I want to start jogging again but I have been a little leary of that. We have been walking in the mornings and that is going well. I like to start my day with physical activity. Of all kinds 😉

I have found some really great books lately. I miss reading I have not had the time to dive into a good book. I have a pile in my library that I need to start reading someday. If I wasn’t flying us overseas that would be a great time to at least get one going. Maybe when I get back home I will find the time.

I plan to get home from Paris and start traveling again. I need to check in with work stuff and make sure things are going well. I had just purchased a house in Oklahoma and had barely begun living in it when Las Vegas came up. I’m most likely going to sell it and continue living here, against my Board of Directors wishes. They prefer I come back to Chicago and keep business going. I would rather stay here and get new business going. It’s been a struggle.

My life has finally begun to make sense and I pray to God everyday that peace remains. I am so thankful for my life and am very happy to have my girlfriend to share it with me. We get along so easily. We find ourselves cracking up laughing so many times. She really is a joy in my life and I’m so blessed to know her. She really has the biggest heart of any woman I know. So kind and loving. And so easy to get along with. I love that about her. I love everything about her.

I am going to find more time for fun and less time for work. My family has been encouraging me to slow down. My friends are wanting to see me more. And I really do need to find a balance. Work will never fulfill me completely. I know God gives me what I can handle, but there are days I feel overwhelmed with decisions, emails, and a to do list that never stops. We are hiring more people to help out and I am currently looking for an office space in Las Vegas.

It’s been a great time this year for me. I look forward to whatever happens the rest of this year. I thank God for everything that has changed. I know I work for it and earn all of these amazing things but I am humbled by all that I have. I am so excited for my future!

Thank you for all coming here. I appreciate your time. Have a great night!

Exciting News and a big Announcement

exciting-news  There has been a lot going on in my life since January. I haven’t really had the time to talk about it all and I was also working on a lot of new and fun projects. I’m going to try to update as much as I can over the weekend and share some incredible books I’ve been reading. I’m so happy you are all coming back into my blog. I see the comments and will get time to respond soon. Thanks for being here. I hope you all have a great weekend!