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I’ve been cooking this morning and afternoon. I’m working on a few things for a much later on mention. It’s kind of big news. IF I CAN get this recipe perfect. It’s been a dream of mine to offer some form of Vegan food for the masses and we might just be there. IF. Only IF. We will circle back to that in the future.

It snowed. *&^*(^%! That’s what I think of that. I am so looking forward to Spring weather. Real Spring weather, not this Colorado gotcha weather. Just when we were hitting some 70s, Mother Nature said BWWAAuuhhhahahahaha, watch this! And she threw snow all over. It’s actually a lot worse than I originally thought it would be. I’m only aware based on my local CBS news channel coverage. A ton of snapped trees, broken branches and so forth out there. I haven’t ventured out so I have no idea. As per usual, I stay home. I did ask the UPS guy how the roads were. He said stay home at least another day, its sloppy now. Okay, we will do that. I keep dreaming of a cool breeze, sunlight, maybe some green grass and budding trees. When will that be happening? I hope soon.

Things are going well today. I’m cooking, I’m cleaning. My daughters are singing the vegetable song to me. They aren’t anywhere near the key it’s supposed to start out in. That’s fine. They are cute. They know they are cute. They do everything together. It’s heartwarming. It also makes me ache for a mom for them. My boys are all so vocal about it. When are we getting a mom? Are you even doing ANYTHING to go get one? How come we don’t already have a mom? It’s relentless.

Let me see what else. I have rearranged the rooms a little. I finally bought my own matching dresser and bigger dresser for my room. Long story, half of my dresser set went away in the divorce. I was tired of arguing about a stupid dresser set so I said take yours, I’m keeping mine. The pettiness of it all. I finally found the one I wanted. I bought it and got it in place. It makes me happy. I feel like I’m finally getting my house in order. Little things here and there. Just waiting on spring time. That would be a great song lyric. Let me think.

Waiting on spring time

When everything is green

and newness all around me

for all the world to see

Hahaha, I tried. I get goofy like that. In fact I do have an entire notebook full of song lyrics I haven’t done anything with. Some days the kids want to go in and record things. Some night when I can’t sleep I work on things. It takes me forever to get a full song done. Months. If only I had more ME time. Oh well, kids need me. I need them. We are a family. We Are Fam a Lee! I got all my. enough. Okay see you guys later. Keep checking back soon. I will have a Money Giveaway coming up soon on here! We are celebrating my 5 Million VISITORS!

Those 5 aren’t my 5

I found this article. I’ve read it 3 times.

5 Essentials to Having a Healthy Relationship (joinonelove.org)

If you want to be that #relationshipgoals couple, here are 5 essentials for having a healthy relationship.

  1. Communication. You’ve definitely heard the very cliché “communication is key.” But here’s the thing – it’s a cliché for a reason
  2. Respect
  3. Boundaries
  4. Trust
  5. Support

While I appreciate these answers they aren’t mine. Some of them are on my top 5 list. I would say Loyalty is a must for me. That ties into Respect and Trust, but for me to be in a love relationship I need someone that is loyal and stays loyal. I’ve been cheated on in every single relationship I have ever had. Except 1. I don’t know if it’s the women I pick or it’s the situations we mix together. Either way if you aren’t loyal to me, forget it. There are a lot of really good women out there. I can find one that doesn’t cheat.

Support, I really don’t need it. I support myself, I support others. I certainly support my significant other. I wouldn’t claim Support in my Top 5. I really don’t need that much support. Respect is good. Boundaries are necessary. You can’t build a life around someone without knowing what is their breaking point areas. It’s usually a conversation when you are both decided do we take this to the next level.

What are your Top 5?